When Your Baby Won’t Stop Crying:
A Gentle Guide for Parents Navigating Colic

It’s 1:43 a.m.
You’ve changed the diaper.
Fed them.
Burped them.
Rocked them.
Walked the hallway so many times you’re considering installing a treadmill.
And still… they cry.
Not a little whimper.
Not a tired fuss.
But that deep, red-faced, body-stiff, can’t-catch-their-breath cry that makes your heart feel like it’s cracking open.
If this is you — first, take a breath.
You are not doing anything wrong.
And you are not alone.
What Is Colic, Really?

Colic is typically defined as crying for more than 3 hours a day, more than 3 days a week, for at least 3 weeks — in an otherwise healthy baby. (you can read a clinical definition here →)
But if you’re living it, statistics don’t matter.
What matters is this:
Your baby seems uncomfortable.
Even when fed and clean, they arch their back or pull their legs in.
Even when you’re doing everything “right,” nothing seems to soothe them.
Dr. Jen often tells parents:
“Colic doesn’t mean something is wrong. It reflects that your baby is having a tough time, and it points us toward gentle ways to support them.”
And that subtle shift matters.
Because it means there may be a reason.
And there are things we can explore.
The Truth Most Parents Don’t Hear

Babies have been through a lot.
Even beautiful, uncomplicated births can involve:
Long labor
Fast labor
Assisted delivery
Cesarean birth
Time in certain positions
Tension from in-utero positioning
Dr. Sharon likes to gently remind parents:
“Birth is a big event for a tiny body.”
Sometimes babies may hold stress or tension in their bodies—especially after birth—and that can show up in different ways, like:
Feeding challenges
Latching difficulties
Digestive discomfort
Trouble releasing gas
Discomfort when lying flat
Difficulty settling or self-soothing
And for babies, discomfort often comes out as crying.
A Story We See Often

A new parent comes in — exhausted, hair in a messy bun, eyes tired but fiercely loving.
They say:
“He just seems uncomfortable all the time. I feel like I’m missing something.”
Sometimes they’ve already tried:
Eliminating dairy
Switching formulas
Gripe water
Probiotics
Gas drops
Bicycle legs 400 times a day
Sometimes they whisper:
“It doesn’t feel right, and I can’t figure out why.”
That instinct matters—it’s one of your most important guides.
Many babies who struggle with colic-like symptoms may also show patterns that can suggest their body is holding stress or tension, such as:
Preferring to turn their head one way
Difficulty latching on one side
Clicking during feeding
Arching during burping
Tight little fists that rarely relax
When we gently assess them, we often notice areas where their body seems to be holding onto tension or stress.
And here’s the part that surprises most parents:
Infant chiropractic adjustments are incredibly gentle.
We’re not “cracking” babies.
We use about the pressure you would use to test a ripe tomato.
The goal is not to “fix” your baby, but to support their nervous system so they can settle and regulate more easily.
How Nervous System Regulation Affects Your Baby

Your baby’s nervous system plays a central role in how they feel, feed, and settle.
When a baby’s nervous system is under stress or holding tension, it can affect:
Comfort while lying down
Feeding and latching
Digestion and gas release
Ability to self-soothe and settle
Sleep patterns
As babies begin to relax and regulate more easily, families often notice:
Less arching
Easier burping
More relaxed feeding
Longer stretches of sleep
A softer belly
A calmer baby
Not overnight miracles.
But gradual shifts in nervous system regulation give parents and babies hope again.
Things You Can Try at Home Tonight

While you’re navigating this season, here are gentle things that may help:
- Take an Epsom Salt Bath
Start with a bath at a comfortable temperature for you. Once it’s slightly cooler—safe for your baby—have your partner bring your little one in to finish the bath with you. This can create a calming, soothing experience for both of you. - Offer a Calm Presence with Skin-to-Skin
Babies pick up on your energy. Hold your baby close, chest-to-chest, for skin-to-skin contact. Slow breathing, soft voices, and gentle touch can help your baby feel safe, relaxed, and comforted. - Quiet, Dim Environment
Lower lights and reduce noise during fussy periods. Calm surroundings support your baby’s nervous system and can make soothing easier. - Remember Your Own Comfort
You can’t pour from an empty cup. Keep a comfortable space for yourself, take breaks when possible, and accept help from your partner or support network.
Frequently Asked Questions about Colic
What We Want You to Know

At Twin Pine, we believe parents deserve answers — not dismissal.
We believe babies deserve to be comfortable.
And we believe education matters just as much as hands-on care.
If you’re reading this in the middle of the night:
You are a good parent.
Your baby is not “broken.”
And sometimes, with the right support, small shifts can make a big difference.
Colic isn’t something you just endure.
With gentle guidance and support, you and your baby can find more comfort together.
Call us and let’s support your baby together.

